Memorials

 

"Save them one at a time, love them all, mourn for those we cannot save, and thank GOD that we have been given this special gift of love for all those creatures we hold dear to our hearts and our souls"

 
~In loving memory of my beloved Gunther~
February 27, 1985~ September 13, 2007

- Told by Larna Grossi, President & Founder

Gunther was my first cat...my ex-husband still jokes to this day that he is the "ONE" who started all the insanity of rescuing cats and throwing myself into this crazy world of animal lovers/rescuers/advocate.

He lived his life the first five years like any Russian Blue...With cattitude, cattitude, cattitude! He was my ONLY and LAST purebred cat, and if you know anything about the breed....they don't do well in busy households. He hated when we installed ceiling fans in the living room, bedroom and office. He protested it and wouldn't go in those three rooms for months, no matter how I tried to call him to me. He wore a bandana from 8 weeks old until the day he died, 22 years later. He wore it with pride, knowing damn well that no other cat in this house had one on and it made him "the man."

Then, one by one....I started rescuing other cats. First Sassy, he bit and scratched her for years. Then Charlie who he stalked for years, pushing her under the bed so she was petrified of coming out for days sometimes. Then Holly, who he adored from the moment she came into the front door. He slept with her every night, her grooming him until he fell asleep. Only did she stop and not go to him any longer when he became sick. My vet said she knew he was dying, and she was separating herself from him. It didn't work. She cries and searches for him, still. Then Marcie, who he simply ignored from the day she entered. He was never bothered by her presence and from that day forward he was never bothered by any cat or kitten that entered this house. He was the king, and he knew this was his home to rule.

In his lifetime I bottle-fed hundreds of kittens....hundreds of them. Most were adopted to wonderful homes, some returned to the shelter and were adopted from there and some...well, some stayed. As the years passed by, and more cats stayed, Gunther resolved himself to being the "man" of this house and gently he ruled the girls. He didn't hiss, he didn't spit, he didn't scratch or bite....but there was a saying in this house, and it rang true for all the other cats. "If Gunther ain't happy, ain't no one happy".....

I could go on and on and tell you story after story. Twenty-two years this boy loved me, even though sometimes I didn't have all the time I would have liked to to spend with him. He loved me despite my marriage of 17 years dissolving, he loved me when I weighed almost 500 lbs. and he loved me after I had gastric bypass and lost 300 lbs. He loved my fiancé' and in the end, he loved each and every cat in this house in his own way.

I will miss him terribly, that goes without saying. But, I will rejoice in having so many memories....

Larna Grossi

 

John and I wish to thank Gunther's wonderful veterinarian, Jeff. Jeff has shown all the love and compassion to us in helping us make the dignified choice for Gunther before he dwindled in his poor health terribly. Jeff was obviously touched and spoke of how Gunther laid his head on my shoulder and tucked his head under my chin.....I don't think either one of us will forget that moment as long as we live. Gunther and I found comfort with each other at that moment, and I am so grateful once again for having such a gentle boy unconditionally love me for 22 years. 

We also would like to thank Jan of Dixie's Project for her sincere gift of the beautiful pendants that we will both wear with pride in memory and in celebration of Gunther's life. Thank you to the Staff at Northern Rhode Island Animal Hospital for always being compassionate and sincere.

John and I want to extend our heartfelt thanks to all the wonderful Dr.'s and Staff at Ferguson Animal Hospital for all of they're thoughtfulness and sincerity while we mourn the loss of my beloved Gunther. Thank you all for your kind words and understanding. Lori, thank you so very much for the beautiful card. Christa, thank you for the beautiful frame for Gunther's picture and his pawprint. I cannot tell you all how much you all mean to me and how important you are in allowing me to continue my work with the animals thru PETS of NE. Thank you ALL for the donation to PETS of NE in memory of my handsome boy, Gunther.

As always, it will go to help all the critters who aren't so lucky to have loving owners and a safe home from the beginning of they're lives....but this is also for all the one's who deserve and get that second chance, and live the rest of they're days happy, healthy, safe and loved.


Sincerely,
 Larna & John


 

~Diesel's Siblings~
October 2008

This litter of kittens came from a bakery in Woonsocket and were only 4-6 days old when I got them. At that age, they just don't have enough colostrum (Mom's milk) to fight off any bacterial infections or temperature changes. They are extremely venerable. And one at at time, they died...I tried everything I knew. I was devastated at the loss. Each one mattered to me.

 Each one deserved a life. And it was taken away from each of them so easily.
I held onto the hope that the strongest and largest one of the litter would survive. So, as each one died....I just put more and more into the survivors and finally the only male  was the last remaining one. The only survivor. He purred all day and all night, so I named him Diesel. He sounded like a truck and he was built like one.
 
Diesel is getting bigger and stronger. He is now old enough to run about the house with the other cats and has lots of fun with them. His best buddy is Captain Jack. They run around all day, indoors...safe, loved, happy and healthy.
We mourn the entire litter, and I wished they had the chance they so deserved for a safe and loving home. To be happy, inoculated, spayed/neutered and indoors, away from harm and healthy. To live a long life.....


~Rest in Peace~

Bless the baby boy, Diesel

 

~Sybil~
July 13th, 2008
Rest in Peace



 
This is the too short story of Sybil, the kitten who came to me as sweet and sassy as she could possibly be. I fell in love with this little girl right away, and loved her different personality. I knew she needed parents who would embrace her multi personality and love it as much as I did.
 
Sybil would be kissing you and pawing at you one minute and in the next biting you and running like the wind, looking for her next adventure. When I found Nicole and Scott, they were looking for a kitten for months without any success. Nicole had become weary and she was losing hope of finding the "perfect" kitten to add to they're lives. As soon as I met them and they met Sybil I knew they were her new parents. They patiently waited for 4 weeks for her to be weaned off the bottle, litter box trained and given her shots. Both Nicole and I cried when Sybil left me...I would miss her, but I knew she would be loved for all of her days. Little did I know that her days would be taken from her so soon.
 
This is where Scott and Nicole's story comes in....
Sybil was loved and spoiled. She had more toys then she could of ever played with for her lifetime. She loved playing in boxes and bags and eagerly awaited for them to come home from the store. Waiting in the window, she would meow and greet them at the door with lots of attention. Face kisses (a trait in bottle fed kittens) were always plenty and she lovingly pawed at them until she fell asleep.
 
Nicole and Scott waited for Sybil to be spayed because of a heart murmur she was born with. After they were told she had grown out of it, they scheduled the spay. 2 days after her spay she stopped eating, 4 days later after fighting to breathe at Ocean State Veterinary Hospital, our baby Sybil died of a heart attack. She was only 10 months old..... The Dr's say she was born with a heart defect that went undetected until the anesthesia was given and then she was unable to recover.
 
Nicole, Scott and I will forever remember our little Sybil. We will mourn for the time that was taken from her. The years that had been robbed from her. She touched each of us with her love and her sassiness. She was loved, and in the short time she was with us, she had a wonderful life....
So sadly missed.

Larna, Nicole and Scott


~Daisy~
02-25-08
Rest in Peace

 

 

I think in the 20 years that I have been at the shelter we have had at least 50 wonderful mascots. These are animals, cats or dogs that have not been able to be adopted for whatever reason, and just stayed with us because we all agreed not to euthanize it. So, they live they're lives with us being spoiled and loved by all of the volunteers and staff. Most of them are old, too old to be adopted or too sick to be adopted, but not sick enough to be euthanized at the time of diagnosis of the disease or problem. I know a lot of them were cats in full renal failure and we were just not ready to let them go, instead letting them be comfortable in Rosie's Room until they either die or we see they are no longer enjoying life but suffering.

 Daisy, was one of these mascots. She was an old orange and white double pawed kitty who preferred to be pet on her all fours instead of your lap or arms. She would tell you by nipping you when she had enough attention and she was done with you....LOL! Daisy was found on the streets and when we finally caught her and brought her to the shelter, we realized she was an old girl...probably 15-16 years old and after bringing her for her shots, we got the news she was in full renal failure. No one wants these animals. Sick, old animals...

I begged the Senior ACO to keep her, and he agreed we would until she told us it was her time. We gave her treats, kept her room clean and warm and her chair near the heater with a clean blanket to lay on. She didn't play, she didn't purr...she lived. And the volunteers loved her. I just adored her. She was a feisty little girl and I hope she was happy for the time she spent with us.

We'll all miss her terribly.

~Larna~

 

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~Callie~
11-6-07
Rest in Peace

 

Callie came to us because her elderly owner passed away. She was depressed from the minute she entered the shelter. She was a friendly and very sweet little girl, eager to receive affection from anyone who would be kind enough to give it to her. Callie didn't have many options, cat's her age don't get adopted. They sit and wait and wait, it's unfair to keep them in a cage for so long. We didn't know exactly her age, or if she had any major health issues.
 
I was at a feral cat clinic and Jane from PAWSWATCH had mentioned that an elderly woman was looking for a companion, she had lost hers recently. I thought instantly of Callie and gave her all my contact information. Karen called me the next day and she said she would like to come up and meet Callie, that her Mom was the one who was looking for a new friend.
 
I had Callie tested for Feluk/Aids and as we all sat waiting at Ferguson for the results, we talked of hoping to get her a new home. She was negative! The next day I took her to work with me for a nice bath and pampering, she looked so pretty and she was such a good girl for me while I bathed her and fluffed her up.
 
Karen came up and of course fell in love with her. I was honest and told her that I had no idea if she had any medical issues and she assured me that she would be taking her right away to the vets on Monday to be checked. So, off Callie went to her new home. I prayed for her to be healthy all weekend.
Monday came and the phone rang, it was Karen....Callie was in fact older then 15-16 years old and she was in full renal failure. This was devastating news to all of us involved in this adoption.
 
This morning Karen met me at the shelter, Callie sitting in her lap in the car..keeping warm and purring. We both cried, and we both understood that she was not going to be able to recover from this at this age. We comforted each other and tried to find peace in knowing we at least tried to give her a second chance. Karen and her Mom allowed Callie to be in a home, on a comfortable couch with "her" pillow for a few days, and we both agreed it was better then being in a cage. She was loved, and was pet and talked to....something she deserved.
 
The staff at Ferguson was expecting me. They felt terrible hearing the news and remembering her from when we tested her earlier that week. While we waited in the hospital, everyone came to pet her and tell her what a pretty little girl she was.
 
I never took my eyes off Callie while she slipped away. I wanted her to feel loving arms around her and hear my voice in her ears....
 
Thank you again to Jane for bringing Karen and her Mom to me.
Thank you to Karen and her Mom for taking a chance and giving this little girl love in her last days.
 
And as always, thank you to all the Staff at Ferguson Animal Hospital and to Dr. Christina Lorenson for being so gentle with Callie and so kind to me.

~
Larna~

 

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~Delta~

- Told by Larna Grossi, President & Founder

This beautiful dog was lovingly named Delta. Delta came to us severely malnourished and very underweight. She was soothed by me singing to her the old song, "Delta Dawn". While I sang this to her, she wouldn't worry about the veterinarian touching her or dogs barking around her....all she heard was me singing to her and as weird as it sounds, it gave her some sort of peace and calm.
Delta was finally adopted to a volunteer's Aunt who just adored her and gave her so very much love for 3 years. It was found that Delta had cancer, and although she was keeping the weight on, she was still very sick....and finally her owners made the decision to put her to rest.
I owe much thanks to Delta's owner for giving her the life that she so deserved and the love she needed. I feel its not the time we are given to these animals that matters, but how we love them so much to take away they're painful pasts and awful memories. Delta's owner did just that, and I am indebted to her for loving her. Delta will be painfully missed.
 
~RIP Delta~
With much love,
Larna

 

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~Noah~

- Told by Larna Grossi, President & Founder

 

I wished Noah could have talked to us when he came to the shelter. He was so thin and so pitiful looking. An old boy, discarded like trash by someone who just didn't care about the years that he served them and loved them. I wanted to know where he came from. I wanted to know if he'd been happy all his life, or not. But I wouldn't ever know that, so we did what we had the power to do...keep him for as long as he allowed us to and show him that life was good, if even for a short time.
 
ACO 1, Richard Starnino spoiled him rotten and so did each of my volunteers. Ernie and Darren did as I asked of them each night, giving him a nice clean bed which they knew would be spoiled in the morning. My volunteers allowed themselves to be completely smitten by him in less then three months. Despite our hearts breaking in knowing that we would only be given a short time with this special boy, we all allowed Noah to touch us and make us better people and be better volunteers.
 
He insisted on his cookies, and if you didn't give them to him promptly he would gently nudge your or use his paw to find them on you. It made him almost puppy like, despite his old gray face and weak legs. I sat with him on the floor of the hospital and fed him cookies right up until he left us today...he left with my voice in his ears and my hands petting his soft fur. But the one thing he left me with is acceptance of letting go of what I cannot change, and making certain that if given a chance, changing what I can. We all gave him enough love to hopefully take away the pain he ever endured and replaced it with love.
 
~Thank you to Richard Starnino, ACO 1  for allowing us to have these last months.
~Thanks to Darren for always giving Noah clean towels to lay on at night.
~Thanks to Ernie for transporting Noah to Ferguson in the morning.
~Heartfelt thanks to all my wonderful and dedicated volunteers who put they're sadness aside and gave joy and love to Noah.
~Big thanks to Christa, Lindsay and Melissa at Ferguson Animal Hospital who took time to come in and lovingly chatted with me about Noah while we waited for his sedation to take effect.
~Thank you to Dr. Christina Lorenson for being gentle and kind to Noah. And for your thoughtful words.

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~Missy~

- Told by Larna Grossi, President & Founder

This little girl came to us, at a ripe old age of 18 years. Her owner, a friend of Senior Animal Control Officer, Richard Starnino's had come onto some very hard times, and had to sell her business and move to another state to try and make a living for herself. It broke her heart to leave her behind, but Missy would not of made the trip alive, so she left her to us and knew we would always take care of her and love her for all of the rest of her days.
 
Missy was a friendly little girl. She loved spending time in the office while I updated my files and paperwork, swatting at flies. The Animal Control Officer's lovingly cooked her fresh caught fish, shrimp, and chicken. She ate anything they gave to her. She allowed herself the best chair in the shelter, and she insisted others sat in the more "fitted for the human chairs." She was spoiled by all who entered the shelter, including the volunteers who adored and showed her a lot of attention.
She was a very smart cat. Walking past the dog kennels, hugging the outside wall into the office. All the while, every dog barking at her...walking slowly by and reminding them that she was free to roam around, while they remained in they're cages!
 
Missy one day, had a stroke and after that time...never recovered or returned to her old self. We all held our breath, hoping she would bounce back, but as the days past she became weaker and more uninterested in food or coming down from her chair. We held her, we cuddled her and spoke softly to her. Loving her and hoping she would allow us more time with her. We felt robbed of time, and everyday hoped for a miracle.
Missy died April 5, 2006. She died peacefully at the shelter, in the office where she loved to watch everyone come in and swat flies and pens. We laid her to rest on the sunny side of the shelter, where we planted a beautiful butterfly bush and shiny chimes blow in the wind. We miss her most when it's quiet and we're alone...without our Mascot, Missy.
 
~RIP~

April 5, 2006

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~Lola~

- Told by Larna Grossi, President & Founder

This beautiful pitbull came to us as because her owner was taken to prison. She had been neglected and she showed signs of abuse from the minute she entered the shelter. She had burn marks on her back, and she was very leery about strange men. I, of course fell head over heels in love with her, promising her that I would find a suitable, loving and safe home for her to spend the rest of her days. She deserved that.
 
Lola spent months with us. No one wanted her. She was yet another pitbull in just another shelter. She spent days in the office with us...and the days turned into months. She bonded with everyone in the shelter, volunteers, and Animal Control officers.
 
One day, a man called interested in her after seeing her on Petfinder.com. He was a Marine, and himself and his wife were interested in adopting her. We washed her, and brushed her, and put a pretty pink bandana on her. And we sat, waiting. And no one came. And no one called. Lola knew something was wrong. She was tense, and irritated. We tried to comfort her, but somehow she knew something wasn't right that day.
 
In the afternoon, a gentleman entered the shelter looking for his lost dog and asking if we could hang a poster for him. Lola, then jumped over the counter, which is over 4 feet and bit him on the arm. She then jumped back immediately and came to my side, looking up at me as if to say, "Look, I just protected you from the strange man!" I cried. I cried like I hadn't cried in a long time. I didn't know what to say to her. I couldn't tell her that it wasn't good, and now she couldn't be trusted around others any longer. That she was a risk. And risks don't get adopted. I knew she had done what she thought was right. She was protecting her home, the home she knew for over 8 months. She was protecting us, the one's she knew loved her.
 
Lola and I were together while we waited in the office. I talked softly to her. I told her that I would fight for her kind, until others wouldn't judge her kind, or abandon them, and abuse them...because they were born pitbulls. I talked with her and promised her this until her last breath....
I will never forget Lola. I will never stop fighting for her, and for others like her. She is a breed misunderstood and used by greedy men, who torment and torture those like her.
 
I will quote my good friend and Vice President of PETS of New England, Katie Cabral....

"Today is a sad day for pitbulls, and it's all man's fault."

~Katie Cabral

~RIP~

March 11, 2004

 

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~Snow~

- Told by Larna Grossi, President & Founder

This handsome boy came to us after his owner sold his house and left Snow to fend for himself, abandoning him. Snow, confused and alone stayed in his doghouse waiting for his owner to return, but after days of not eating, he started roaming the neighborhood searching for food and water. Concerned neighbors called the shelter and expressed how worried they were about him not having food or water for over a week.

Snow didn't come willingly to us. We had to trick him to come to us by showing him that we had food....after a few hours, the Animal Control Officer's were successful in leashing him.
 
At the shelter, we had to feed him slowly so he wouldn't get sick after not eating for so long. Snow was a purebred English Bulldog and he was not used to being caged up in a small space. After a few weeks of being very friendly and calm, he began showing signs of agitation and aggression when we approached his cage. This was his cage, and he intended on protecting it. We knew he was afraid and scared, but as the days passed he became more and more aggressive toward all of us at the shelter...we were now unable to go into his cage or allow volunteers to walk, brush or pet him.  Sadly, Snow was euthanized.
 

We blame his owner, who left him like he was a piece of garbage or furniture he no longer wanted or needed. So many like Snow serve they're owners for years, only to be abandoned and tossed away when it's no longer convenient to take care of them....

~RIP~
Snow

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~Opal's Beautiful Kittens~

- Told by Larna Grossi, President & Founder

Opal was brought to the shelter by her irresponsible owner who said her boyfriend would throw her out if she didn't get rid of Opal and her kittens. Opal was 1 years old, had no shots or been spayed. Her babies were healthy babies, adorable babies...but were born unwanted like they're Mother. In the cat room, they thrived. Eating well and growing quickly.

A man came in a few days later, with a cat that he had found on the street. Scruffy and dirty, we brought her back to the room and fed and watered her. She quickly became very sick, and died within 2 days, spreading her unnoticed virus throughout the shelter....

Within days, Opal's beautiful, playful and healthy babies all died from Feline Distemper. Two of them died in my lap, on the way to the hospital. We will never, ever forget each one of they're faces.

We never heard from the owner again. She never called asking how they were, or if they had gotten homes, or if they were alive.

~RIP~
Opal's beautiful babies

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